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Continue reading →: Top 10 Mistakes Beginners Make in PetplayIf you are new to the world of petplay, you are likely feeling a mix of excitement and perhaps a little uncertainty. Pet play is something that is deeply personal, and sometimes the first steps are the hardest. This post is here to guide you a little bit. Below, I…
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Continue reading →: Debunking Common Misconceptions About PetplayPetplay remains one of the most misunderstood aspects of the kink community, often reduced to stereotypes that barely scratch the surface of its true depth and diversity. These misconceptions don’t just create confusion—they cause real emotional harm, pushing people away from exploration that could bring them joy, connection, and self-discovery.…
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Continue reading →: Safe Words, Safe Play – How to Master the Art of Consent in KinkI want to discuss a topic that’s as crucial as it is sexy: safe words and the art of consent. If you’re new to the scene or if you’re a Master in being a Master (yeah yeah , sorry) mastering consent can take your kinky experiences to a whole new…
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Continue reading →: 35 Pet Play Scene PromptsI realised that there isnt as much for Pet Play out there, so let’s change this… For you babes, a full page of inspiration that you can print and draw from anytime you want to spark something new. You can be sassy kitten, a loyal pup, a proud show pony,…
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Continue reading →: The Drop: What Happens After the High in BDSM PlayHey babe! Ever heard of The Drop? No, not a new synthwave track or you dropping a plate. I’m talking about sub drop and dom drop the emotional (and sometimes physical) crash that can hit after an intense BDSM scene or play session. Yep. Even after the best scene, when…
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Continue reading →: What is BDSM aftercare?Aftercare is what happens after a scene or play session ends. It’s the emotional, physical, and psychological TLC that helps everyone involved come back down to Earth in one piece. It’s more or less like a cool-down after a workout, or a warm blanket after a thunderstormour body and brain…
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Continue reading →: Why a BDSM Checklist Is Your New Kinky Best FriendAlright babe, let’s talk about one of the most magical, underrated, and empowering tools in the kink world:The Yes/No/Maybe List. This thing is like a personal checklist, and boundary bible all rolled into one. Whether you’re brand new to the scene or just trying to get a clearer sense of…
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Continue reading →: What Is BDSM?Alright babe, let’s talk about the acronym that is: BDSM. You’ve probably heard the term tossed around in movies, memes, or whispered convos that end in “…but I’d never do that.”Well guess what? You might already be into that — you just didn’t have the name for it. Let’s discuss…
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Continue reading →: What Is Kink? An intro to BDSM for the Curious Beginner.Hey babe — welcome to Kinkarchives! First of all, let’s get one thing straight: this space is 100% judgment-free and safe for the deeply curious. If you are not sure what BDSM is, or if you already understand had a vibe that vanilla wasn’t your flavor, you’ve landed in the…
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Welcome to Kinkarchives. This is my messy, curious little corner of the internet where I collect thoughts, stories, and ideas about kink, power, intimacy, and everything that doesn’t quite fit into polite conversation. And to be completely honest a homage to my Daddy…
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